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My Friend, My Friend has not been seen in 2 Phish shows.
It was played at 8.2% of live shows.
There have been 1133 shows since the live debut.
My Friend, My Friend has been played, on average, once every 12 shows.
Since its debut, My Friend, My Friend has been played, on average, every 8 shows.
It was played 136 time(s) at the following show(s):

Show Date Venue Gap Set Song Before Song After Notes
1992-03-06 The Music Hall, Portsmouth, NH 580 2 *** Poor HeartDebut. 
1992-03-11 The Colonial Theatre, Keene, NH 2 1 Suzy > Paul and Silas
1992-03-19 Palace Theatre, New Haven, CT 5 2 Suzy > Coil
1992-03-21 Chestnut Cabaret, Philadelphia, PA 2 2 'A' Train > Poor Heart
1992-03-26 Ziggy's, Winston-Salem, NC 4 2 TMWSIY > Lizards
1992-03-31 The Blue Note, Columbia, MO 4 2 Dinner and a Movie > MSO
1992-04-04 Balch Fieldhouse, University of Colorado, Boulder, CO 3 2 Cold as Ice Harpua
1992-04-07 Fine Arts Auditorium, Fort Lewis College, Durango, CO 3 2 YEM Lizards
1992-04-19 The Catalyst, Santa Cruz, CA 8 1 Paul and Silas Reba
1992-04-25 Campus Recreation Center, Evergreen College, Olympia, WA 5 1 Suzy > Paul and Silas
1992-05-01 The Rave, Milwaukee, WI 3 1 Suzy > Poor Heart
1992-05-07 The Agora Theatre, Cleveland, OH 5 1 Buried Alive > Foam
1992-05-14 The Capitol Theatre, Port Chester, NY 5 1 Poor Heart > Bouncin'
1992-07-15 Trax, Charlottesville, VA 18 1 Foam Uncle Pen
1992-08-17 The Coach House, San Juan Capistrano, CA 19 1 Foam Bouncin'
1992-11-22 Bailey Hall, Cornell University, Ithaca, NY 14 2 Axilla MSO
1992-12-01 Livingston Gymnasium, Denison University, Granville, OH 6 2 CDT ATR
1992-12-06 The Vic Theatre, Chicago, IL 5 1 Fee > MSO
1992-12-11 Michigan Theater, Ann Arbor, MI 4 1 Sparkle > Memories
1992-12-29 Palace Theatre, New Haven, CT 4 1 Llama Divided
1993-02-03 Portland Expo, Portland, ME 3 1 IDK Poor HeartBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-02-06 Roseland Ballroom, New York, NY 3 1 Wilson MazeBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-02-09 Auditorium Theatre, Rochester, NY 2 1 Poor Heart RiftBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-02-12 Mid-Hudson Civic Center, Poughkeepsie, NY 3 2 *** ATRBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-02-17 Benton Convention Center, Winston-Salem, NC 3 2 Glide BBJBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-02-19 Roxy Theatre, Atlanta, GA 2 1 Sparkle Poor HeartBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-02-23 The Edge Night Club, Orlando, FL 4 1 Golgi RiftBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-03-02 Tipitina's, New Orleans, LA 4 2 *** Uncle PenBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-03-08 Sweeney Center, Santa Fe, NM 4 2 BBJ KungBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-03-12 Dobson Arena, Vail, CO 2 2 Bag SparkleBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. Careful with That Axe, Eugene quote.
1993-03-16 Celebrity Theatre, Phoenix, AZ 3 2 *** CurtainBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-03-18 The Palace, Hollywood, CA 2 2 *** Poor HeartBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. The Little Drummer Boy jam.
1993-03-21 Ventura Theatre, Ventura, CA 2 2 Loving Cup RiftBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. No "Myfe" ending. 
1993-03-27 Warfield Theatre, San Francisco, CA 5 1 Reba Uncle PenBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-03-30 Hilton Ballroom, Eugene, OR 2 1 Golgi LlamaBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. Theme from Sesame Street tease.
1993-04-01 Roseland Theater, Portland, OR 2 1 Coil Paul and SilasBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-04-03 86th Street Music Hall, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada 2 1 Coil RebaBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-04-09 State Theatre, Minneapolis, MN 2 2 Mound YEMBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. Killer Joe tease.
1993-04-10 Aragon Ballroom, Chicago, IL 1 1 Coil Uncle PenBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-04-13 Memorial Hall, Kansas City, KS 2 2 *** RiftBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-04-17 Michigan Theater, Ann Arbor, MI 3 1 Glide ATRBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da tease.
1993-04-20 Newport Music Hall, Columbus, OH 2 2 TMWSIY LlamaBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-04-23 Cotterell Court, Reid Athletic Center, Colgate University, Hamilton, NY 3 1 Fluffhead DividedBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. Baby Elephant Walk tease.
1993-04-27 Concert Hall, Toronto, Ontario, Canada 3 2 Golgi ATRBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-04-29 Le Spectrum, Montréal, Québec, Canada 1 e *** Sweet AdelineBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-05-01 Tower Theatre, Upper Darby, PA 2 2 Fluffhead > CoilBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-05-05 Palace Theatre, Albany, NY 3 2 Runaway Jim -> MantecaBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-05-05 Palace Theatre, Albany, NY 0 2 Manteca -> Poor Heart
1993-05-08 Field House, University of New Hampshire, Durham, NH 3 1 Glide RebaBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-07-16 The Mann Center for the Performing Arts, Philadelphia, PA 4 1 Golgi Ya MarBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-07-23 Jones Beach Amphitheater, Wantagh, NY 5 2 Faht -> Uncle PenBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-07-28 Grady Cole Center, Charlotte, NC 4 2 Mound HoodBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar; Aw Fuck! signal; No "Myfe" ending. 
1993-07-30 The Veranda at Starwood, Antioch, TN 2 2 Fluffhead > GolgiBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-08-07 Darien Lake Performing Arts Center, Darien Center, NY 5 2 Sparkle McGruppBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-08-09 Concert Hall, Toronto, Ontario, Canada 2 2 Tela > MMGAMOIOBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-08-11 Eastbrook Theatre, Grand Rapids, MI 1 1 Ginseng > MangoBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-08-16 American Theater, St. Louis, MO 5 2 It's Ice Poor HeartBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-08-20 Red Rocks Amphitheatre, Morrison, CO 2 2 Coil CDTBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-08-25 Paramount Theatre, Seattle, WA 3 2 Mound Paul and SilasBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. 
1993-12-28 Bender Arena, American University, Washington, DC 3 2 YEM LizardsBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. No "Myfe" ending. 
1994-04-10 Alumni Arena, SUNY Buffalo, Buffalo, NY 9 2 *** Ya MarBeginning featured Trey on acoustic guitar. No "Myfe" lyric. Rockin' Back Inside My Heart jam with lyrics.
1994-04-18 Bob Carpenter Center, University of Delaware, Newark, DE 7 1 Julius Rift
1994-04-24 Grady Cole Center, Charlotte, NC 5 1 *** Ya Mar
1994-05-06 Tower Theater, Houston, TX 9 1 Poor Heart Ya Mar
1994-05-13 Hayden Square, Tempe, AZ 5 1 If I Could > Slave
1994-05-19 Silva Concert Hall, Hult Center for the Performing Arts, Eugene, OR 4 1 Llama Poor Heart
1994-05-27 Warfield Theatre, San Francisco, CA 7 2 Peaches > Reba
1994-06-14 Civic Center, Des Moines, IA 7 1 Fee -> Uncle Pen
1994-06-21 Cincinnati Music Hall, Cincinnati, OH 5 2 DwD > SOAMeltRock and Roll, Hoochie Koo and Moby Dick jams.
1994-07-03 The Ballpark, Old Orchard Beach, ME 10 1 *** Poor Heart
1994-07-10 Saratoga Performing Arts Center, Saratoga Springs, NY 5 1 If I Could JuliusPurple Haze tease.
1994-10-07 Stabler Arena, Lehigh University, Bethlehem, PA 5 1 *** Julius
1994-10-12 Orpheum Theatre, Memphis, TN 4 1 *** RebaA cappella lyrics at start. 
1994-10-18 Vanderbilt University Memorial Gym, Nashville, TN 5 1 Simple > IDKExtra lyrics from Mike. 
1994-10-23 Band Shell, University of Florida, Gainesville, FL 4 1 CDT -> Sparkle
1994-10-29 Spartanburg Memorial Auditorium, Spartanburg, SC 5 1 *** Sparkle
1994-11-14 DeVos Hall, Grand Rapids, MI 7 1 *** SOAMule
1994-11-26 The Orpheum Theatre, Minneapolis, MN 9 1 *** Possum
1994-11-30 Campus Recreation Center, Evergreen College, Olympia, WA 2 1 Poor Heart > RebaNo "Myfe" ending. 
1995-06-09 Red Rocks Amphitheatre, Morrison, CO 17 1 *** Divided
1995-06-15 Lakewood Amphitheatre, Atlanta, GA 4 1 *** Sparkle
1995-06-26 Saratoga Performing Arts Center, Saratoga Springs, NY 9 1 *** Don't You Want To Go?Pomp and Circumstance March No. 1 tease.
1995-07-03 Summer Stage at Sugarbush, North Fayston, VT 6 1 *** Poor HeartTrey using his microphone stand as a slide.  
1995-09-30 Shoreline Amphitheatre, Mountain View, CA 4 1 *** CTB
1995-10-20 Five Seasons Arena, Cedar Rapids, IA 13 1 *** Ya Mar
1995-10-24 Dane County Coliseum, Madison, WI 3 1 *** Paul and Silas
1995-11-12 O'Connell Center, University of Florida, Gainesville, FL 9 1 *** Llama
1995-11-21 Lawrence Joel Veterans Memorial Coliseum, Winston-Salem, NC 6 1 Guyute Dog Faced BoyNo "Myfe" ending. 
1995-12-11 Cumberland County Civic Center, Portland, ME 14 1 *** Ha Ha HaNo "Myfe" ending. 
1995-12-17 Olympic Center, Lake Placid, NY 5 1 *** Poor Heart
1995-12-29 Worcester Centrum Centre, Worcester, MA 2 1 *** Poor Heart
1996-07-15 La Marna, Sesto Calende, Italy 14 1 *** PYITE
1996-08-10 Alpine Valley Music Theatre, East Troy, WI 14 1 *** Poor Heart
1996-10-19 Marine Midland Arena, Buffalo, NY 9 1 *** Rift
1996-11-03 O'Connell Center, University of Florida, Gainesville, FL 10 1 *** Runaway JimKarl Perazzo on percussion. 
1996-11-27 Key Arena, Seattle, WA 15 1 Julius > Ya Mar
1996-12-04 Sports Arena, San Diego, CA 5 1 *** CDT
1997-02-25 Incognito, Munich, Germany 15 2 Fee -> DwDAborted quickly and scrapped. 
1997-02-26 Longhorn, Stuttgart, Germany 1 1 Llama Hood
1997-12-05 CSU Convocation Center, Cleveland, OH 57 1 Runaway Jim -> Ginseng
1998-07-31 Polaris Amphitheater, Columbus, OH 35 1 *** Ya Mar
1998-11-15 Murphy Center, Middle Tennessee State University, Murfreesboro, TN 29 1 *** Ghost
1999-07-25 Deer Creek Music Center, Noblesville, IN 32 1 Meat My Left ToeNo "Myfe" lyric. 
1999-07-31 Naeba Ski Resort, Niigata, Japan 4 1 *** Golgi
2000-07-12 Deer Creek Music Center, Noblesville, IN 69 1 *** Curtain WithUnfinished. 
2000-09-09 Pepsi Arena, Albany, NY 5 1 Possum JamNo "Myfe" lyric. 
2000-09-27 Fiddler's Green, Englewood, CO 12 1 Sample Beauty of My DreamsNo "Myfe" lyric. 
2003-01-02 Hampton Coliseum, Hampton, VA 9 2 Simple -> LxL
2003-07-30 Tweeter Center at the Waterfront, Camden, NJ 32 1 *** Lonesome Cowboy Bill
2009-03-08 Hampton Coliseum, Hampton, VA 32 1 Bag > SOAMule
2009-06-05 Nikon at Jones Beach Theater, Wantagh, NY 4 1 IDK Ya Mar
2009-08-13 Darien Lake Performing Arts Center, Darien Center, NY 20 1 Wolfman's Possum
2009-11-27 Times Union Center, Albany, NY 13 2 *** Golden Age
2010-06-15 nTelos Pavilion, Portsmouth, VA 14 1 Moma > Cold Water
2010-07-04 Verizon Wireless Amphitheatre at Encore Park, Alpharetta, GA 14 1 Heavy Things > Lawn Boy
2010-08-12 Verizon Wireless Music Center, Noblesville, IN 6 2 Gin Buffalo Bill
2010-08-18 Nikon at Jones Beach Theater, Wantagh, NY 5 2 46 Days -> Hood
2010-10-15 North Charleston Coliseum, North Charleston, SC 5 2 Roses > My Problem Right There
2010-10-23 Mullins Center, University of Massachusetts, Amherst, MA 5 2 DwD > CaspianDid not contain the "Myfe" ending. 
2010-12-30 Madison Square Garden, New York, NY 8 2 Theme -> AxillaNo "Myfe" ending. 
2011-05-27 Bethel Woods Center for the Arts, Bethel, NY 3 1 Tweezer > Poor Heart
2011-06-18 Time Warner Cable Music Pavilion at Walnut Creek , Raleigh, NC 16 2 Piper > KDFNo "Myfe" ending. 
2011-07-01 Watkins Glen International, Watkins Glen, NY 2 1 Life on Mars? Wolfman's
2011-08-05 Gorge Amphitheatre, George, WA 3 1 Nellie Kane > Cavern
2011-12-28 Madison Square Garden, New York, NY 13 2 Tweezer > R&RNo "Myfe" ending. 
2012-06-16 Bader Field, Atlantic City, NJ 8 1 Halley's > Wolfman's
2012-07-08 Saratoga Performing Arts Center, Saratoga Springs, NY 15 2 KDF -> Swept AwayNo "Myfe" ending. 
2012-08-17 Bill Graham Civic Auditorium, San Francisco, CA 2 1 Roses -> Slave
2012-08-29 Oklahoma City Zoo Amphitheatre, Oklahoma City, OK 8 2 BOAF > R&RNo "Myfe" ending. 
2012-12-30 Madison Square Garden, New York, NY 6 1 Horn > AntelopeNo "Myfe" ending. 
2013-07-05 Saratoga Performing Arts Center, Saratoga Springs, NY 3 1 Army of One > CitiesNo "Myfe" ending. 
2013-07-20 FirstMerit Bank Pavilion at Northerly Island, Chicago, IL 10 1 Destiny > KDF
2013-08-05 Hollywood Bowl, Hollywood, CA 10 2 DwD > Hood
2013-10-22 BlueCross Arena, Rochester, NY 7 1 Timber > Halfway to the Moon
2014-07-05 Saratoga Performing Arts Center, Saratoga Springs, NY 18 1 Crowd Control > SOAMule
2014-07-25 PNC Music Pavilion, Charlotte, NC 11 1 Tube > Winterqueen
2014-10-22 Santa Barbara County Bowl, Santa Barbara, CA 14 1 Winterqueen > SOAMelt
My Friend, My Friend was also performed the following 4 times:
Show Date Artist Venue Notes
2005-11-15Trey Anastasio Band Tower Theatre, Upper Darby, PATrey solo acoustic; stopped, restarted, then aborted.
2010-10-09Trey Anastasio and Mike Gordon 1stBank Center, Broomfield, COTrey on acoustic guitar and Mike on acoustic bass.
2011-02-18Trey Anastasio Band State Theatre, Portland, METrey solo acoustic.
2011-03-02Trey Anastasio Band The Ogden Theatre, Denver, COTrey solo acoustic.
"My Friend, My Friend" was performed on the following dates that do not count for statistical purposes:
Show Date Venue Gap Set Song Before Song After Notes
1992-01-14 The Band House, Winooski, VT --- 1 Weigh MMGAMOIO
"My Friend, My Friend" was teased at the following shows:
Show Date Artist Song (Tease Type) Venue
1993-04-10Phish David Bowie (Tease) Aragon Ballroom, Chicago, IL
2004-08-12Phish (Tease) Tweeter Center at the Waterfront, Camden, NJ
2013-08-05Phish Harry Hood (Quote) Hollywood Bowl, Hollywood, CA

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